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Thursday, April 24, 2014

Waiting… Part 1

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Patience. Something most of us wish we had more of. Whether it’s with our children, spouse, co-workers, or just life in general, being patience is a quality we constantly have to work at. All day long I find myself waiting. I wait on the kids to finish breakfast, pick up their toys, or finish a school assignment. I wait on co-workers to reply to my emails or join a meeting. I wait on my husband to finish that project he promised he’d get to a week ago. Now that I’m trying to find success in writing, I’m experiencing even more waiting while I wait on potential agents to reply to my queries.

 It’s hard waiting on others, and often I catch myself thinking that I deserve a quick answer or that others should meet my demands and expectations. What I tend to forget is that I don’t always meet the demands and expectations of others either. Just as I wait for others, other are waiting for me. Maybe you’re someone who always fulfills other’s requests in a timely manner. Maybe you’re always on top of your to-do list, and you’re never late for a meeting or appointment. Maybe that’s you, but that’s not me.

 Although I consider myself to be reliable and responsible, there are times when I, too, keep others waiting. We all have priorities and things we value more than others, so it’s only natural to fulfill requests and finish tasks in the order which we see fit. Unfortunately, in doing this, others have to wait on us. I try to remember this when I get frustrated, and instead of waiting, I try to do something productive. That always makes me feel better. When you think about it, why are we waiting in the first place? There’s always something we can be doing to add value and efficiency to our day.

 Do you find it hard waiting on others? What have you done to improve your patience?

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Free Your Mind of Clutter


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Is this your office space? Is this your entire house? If so, this is probably how your mind looks as well if it were possible to flip the top of your head open and see your thoughts. Don’t worry, I’ve been there too…many, many times. It starts with a couple of sticky notes, which you’ve placed to “organize” your thoughts. Before you know it, the neat stack of papers you intended to file have now turned into a mountain, which keeps topping over and sending papers into the crack between the wall and desk. I know, I know, you have good intentions. Me too. So, why does this keep happening?  
 
If you want to be free of clutter you have to have a good system in place where it doesn’t feel like a chore to maintain it. When I worked in manufacturing we learned an organization method, originally created by the Japanese, called 5s. The five S’s stand for sort, set-in-order, shine, standardize, and sustain. It sounds simple, and that’s because it is. Allow me to break it down further. I’ll use an office space as an example.
 
·         Sort – Remove everything from your cluttered desk and begin sorting the items in three categories: keep, throw away, and put away. The keep items are things that belong in your office space: stapler, pencils, mouse pad, etc. Throw-away items are simply that, things that need thrown away: old sticky notes, junk mail, pens that won’t write, etc. Finally, the put-away items are things that you want to keep, but they don’t belong in your office space. Put those where they belong.
·         Set-in-Order – Once you’ve sorted everything and you’re left with only items that go in your office space, you need to organize them. Put all your working pens and pencils in a single spot where they’re easy to reach and won’t spill out into other areas. I have a three-drawer bin under my desk where I keep office items that I use, but not on a frequent basis. For example, CDRs, mailing labels, etc. Only put things on the surface of your desk that you use multiple times per day.
·         Shine – Now that everything is organized, you need to clean your office space. Swipe those sticky fingerprints off the computer screen, remove the dust from your desk’s surface, and sweep the area under your desk, which rarely gets attention. It will make you feel better – I promise!
·         Standardize – Your desk in now neat and clean, so now is the time to put systems in place, which will allow you to make this a standardized process. If you allow papers to collect on your desk because your filing system is unmanageable, then it’s time to fix it. If trash piles on the floor next to your feet because the only trash can is two rooms over, then buy a small trash can for your office space. If you don’t fix the underlying problems, then your cleaning an organizing efforts are only a bandage, not a long-term solution.
·         Sustain – Your systems are in place that will help you to control the clutter, so now all you have to do is maintain the process and keep it that way. This tends to be the hardest part for many of us, but a little effort each day goes a long way.
 
Although this methodology was originally created for a manufacturing setting, I’ve found that it’s very useful for any workspace. When you’re environment is cluttered, it’s hard to be productive. Clearing your mind of clutter can be as easy as clearing your desk.
 
Do you have an organization method that works for you? Please share!
 

Thursday, April 10, 2014

What is Your Mini-Getaway?

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In a previous post, I mentioned that taking breaks are important for a person’s sanity. Who was I referring to? Everyone, really. My weekdays tend to get pretty methodical. I have the same routine each day. I get up, fix my husband’s lunch, make coffee, get in some writing, and then begin working (I work from home). Throughout the day, when I get chunks of time, I barrel through each subject with my nine-year old to complete his homeschooling lessons – all while meeting the needs of my melodramatic two-year old. Although I have the freedom to switch things up a little throughout the day, it usually ends the same with me feeling completely exhausted and ultimately accomplishing less than I had planned.
 
Remember when you were young, and time was so irrelevant? Some of my happiest memories during childhood were during the warm seasons, riding my bike, making mud pies, and playing with cousins on the Rock Cliff (sounds dangerous, but it was just some large boulders on our family’s property). Unless you count the last few minutes of school before the bell rang, I never paid the clock any mind. I was more concerned with my next adventure. Now that I’m an adult with real responsibilities, I sometimes feel like time takes me prisoner. Thus, the mini-getaway is born.
 
Unfortunately, I can’t dismiss my responsibilities and just have fun doing what I want, but I can take some downtime. As long as I’ve completed a few tasks on my to-do list, I don’t have to feel guilty about it either. In the spring, I love working in the yard; especially in my flower beds. There is something so relaxing about being outside where the air smells clean and fresh, and the warm sunshine can make the worst day just a little better. In the summer I like playing with the kids in the yard or finding a home project that will make my home look brighter or run more efficiently. The winter is a little tougher since the sunshine is scarce, but that’s when I do the most reading and writing. Playing hide-and-go-seek with the kids in our small 1100 square foot home is a great adventure too.
 
Whatever it is that I find to do, I try to take in every second; like I did when I was a kid. I try not to think about what is still left to do, or what I could’ve done better. I’ll have plenty of time for that when my mini-getaway is over, and I’m back to my “normal” routine. The word routine reminds me of when I was breastfeeding my newborn daughter. She had a routine all of her own, which meant her routine was also mine. One of the things I credit for staying sane and getting to enjoy my baby, amongst the everyday chaos, was feeding time.
 
 When she was hungry, it didn’t matter what I was doing, I had to stop and feed her. Because she was attached, I didn’t have the freedom to do much multi-tasking (Kudos to anyone who can do dishes while you breastfeed your child.). While the world was running laps around me, I got to look down into her beautiful face and hold her little hand and tell her how much I love her. This brings me to the conclusion that God was certainly the original inventor of the mini-getaway. If He thinks it’s important, then so do I.

What keeps you sane amongst the monotonousness of routine and the chaos of a busy day? What is your mini-getaway?
 


Thursday, April 3, 2014

How Many Query Letters Should I Send at Once?

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One of many mistakes I made when I began querying agents was the idea that more is better, specifically in reference to querying multiple agents at one time. I do not agree with this concept. I have read many recommendations on the Web that by sending out 50 or more query submissions at once, an author has a better chance of getting an agent request to see more material. This concept is widely used in the direct sales industry, which makes perfect sense. If you are selling vacuum cleaners door-to-door, you are more likely to sell one if you visit 50 homes than if you only visit five. There are a few problems with using this concept for query submissions.
 
·         Your query letter lacks appeal: If you are new to querying, you need to do a test drive with your letter. I looked at many query letter samples and revised my letter multiple times before I finally got an agent’s attention. Start by submitting to four to six agents, if you get a request for more material, you know you’re doing something right. If not, you may need to revamp your letter before sending again.
·         You’re depleting your resources too quickly: If you send to 50 or more literary agents at once, depending on your form of lit and genre, you have most likely expired your list of first and secondary agent picks. If anything, you’re left with agents or agencies that are either irrelevant or not credible. If you’ve written the perfect query letter (remember: beauty is in the eye of the beholder) you have nothing to worry about, but if not, you might have just ruined your chance with those agents.
·         Your query letter doesn’t conform to the agent’s guidelines: Although, there is a standard set of information widely expected to be present in a query letter, many agents will give a list of information they are interested in seeing. If you’ve submitted to 50 or more agents in a short period, most likely you have not took the time to carefully read the agent’s guidelines, nor learn much more than their name. Like everyone else, agents want to feel special. They want to know that you took the time to learn a little about them, and were thoughtful enough to send a query that aligns with their guidelines and/or suggestions.
 
What are your thoughts on this subject? Have you ever queried a large number of agents at once? What kind of response did you get?